Recently I've been having a lot of conversations with the broken hearted(be it for work,relationships,life…etc etc). For some reason, friends, even if we have just met not terribly long ago, feel comfortable pouring out their innermost sorrows to me.
I should start a Rehab for the broken hearted.Awwww........really,can i??
I guess most of us would have our fair share of broken hearts and it is truly difficult to get over someone, something or a disappointing situation, crushed dreams, and even yourself.
Maybe some of us are blessed with truly busy jobs - we just have no time to dwell upon things. Though sometimes, for a fleeting moment, you are reminded of that someone. Or perhaps in that few empty moments before you go to bed, you think about what you shouldn't have done.
Some meaningful truths and lessons I've learned along the way:
P.s. Note they are completely original. I didn't rip them off some self-help book.
1) Realize it takes time. Don't expect to be happy immediately but don't walk around with a sullen face either.
2) Go for a haircut! Change your image! Its temporal but it forces you to focus on something else.
3) Count your blessings!
4) Go for some personal development plan - cooking, dancing,singing. Also focus your energies on changing something about yourself - just to feel a little buzz, desire to be a better person.
5) Re-brand yourself. If you are a hermit, go out more! Party & Party Real Hard!!! If you are a socialite, try changing the scene altogether, and go on a mission trip to Cambodia,South Africa,Slovakia,...watever.....
6) Plan revenge! This always works to a certain extent. And look fabulous as you do.Sway your hair.....
7) B****! Or rather, vent! Be careful not to overstay your listener's welcome, if you know what I mean. (You don't want to be losing your friends the same time you are getting over your broken heart.) **I wonder if men does them too…but nevertheless,I guess men does them by “bottoms-ing UP**
8) If its over someone whom you had a relationship with, hang out with the best looking people you can find! You'll feel better having adoring male (or female) attention, even if they are not in love with you! If its over yourself, don't feed on negative thoughts but rather give yourself extra pampering! If its over your lost dreams etc, throw out your old journal and get a new one and start writing new dreams/plans/strategy or hibernate for awhile before doing them.
9) Make new friends! Develop existing friendships. Find quality people to hang out with.
10) Honestly, even after doing all these, you'll still find sometimes feeling empty. That means you've got a BIG one on your hands, or in this case, a big crack in your heart. (maybe sometimes you may still wanna rack your brains a little to see if you could win the situation over to start it all over again)
It’s ok, whatever the case, juz move On!!!!We live to look forward to everything beautiful in life…….
Cheers!!!!!
It’s ok, whatever the case, juz move On!!!!We live to look forward to everything beautiful in life…….
Cheers!!!!!
**Lianz Turnz on to her ipod & listens to Micheal Buble-How Can You Mend A Broken Heart......ZZZZzzzz......
3 comments:
Hmmm...fixing a broken heart,ya.Haha..who said time will heals everything?Nope,it doesn't...but it can soften the pain.I guess nobody can really take it easy and let go easy in relationship.If they can do that,then i am sure when they are in that relationship,they are not 100% into it in the 1st place.Although it is hard to let go but when you saw their happier life,you will feel that you did the right choice by not clinging on to them.It is always nice to forever have those nice memories in our heart.Out of topic?Haha...just wrote whatever i thought of.Haha...cheers!=)
Has anyone told you how much they have been hurt by you even though it may appears to you that u have been the one hurt or cheated??Missing u is much more difficult then loving you....
if only 1 day,someone told me that same sentence...my heart will melts.....
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