Lianz in Venice....

Hi hi.....here i am trying to squeeze in some time for a real short post for a few people....mmm....ok,some people then.Firstly,sista,happy birthday!!!!juz in case my timing is all wrong by then....by the way,im all mixed up by time n dates....argh.....the cold weather is killing my nose and head,giving me migraines and causing me bad sleep.boohooo......pout.....THen,to all my gal pals out there....sux,i cant spent xmas with you ppl there.....super sux!!!!MERRY X'MAS to YOUUUUUU....*i'll be in Switzerland for a White Xmas then*.....

I felt so lost in virtual world.MY internet access is so limited here BUT my "willpower" to shop here is atrocious...heeee...yes,PRADAs,MIU MIU,FURLAs & GUCCIs are on S-A-L-E-S!!!!!woohhhooooo.....do i hear people wailing ????muhahhaaa.....
Yes!!!! PRADA & FURLA conquered for now.......wheeeee......i almost got myself "bankrupt" in PRADA!!!!Well,my "will-power" is still strong!!!
I was such a material girl yet trying to tame myself by telling myself "no...no more,dun do that kathy!!!or your lecturers are gonna "counsel" you on your 1st day of class".....booohooo....

Argh,it's 9:48pm here and the dark cold sky and the awful thoughts of not being able to sleep yet having no shops around starts killing Lianz!!!Yes,not even food outlet to say...there is a pizza cafe opposite my hotel but it closes @10pm anyway.....Sighhhzzz
Food here sux....i'm "downing" myself vigorously with "cafe latte" on a dosage of approximately 3cups per day AT LEAST!!!!*i've never fancy coffee to start off with*.......

Mmm...ok,i gtg for now....no one's on MSN anyway at this miserable time of 4am Singapore time .....
Ciao......

Screensaver Mode Lianz......

My mind is buzzing at a speed that my understanding can't catch up. That is probably why I never am able to have beautiful handwriting. I can barely keep up with my thoughts.

Remember the story about how Thomas Edison (or was it Einstein) had two cats - a big and a little cat? Annoyed at always being interrupted in his labwork to let those cats in and out, he made 2 holes in the wall. One large one for the big cat and a small hole for the little cat. You would think he should have been smart enough to realize one BIG HOLE in the wall is sufficient.

That's like me today. There are so many things going on and I could hardly breathe the whole of November and now I am into DECEMBER….and believe it,I love Christmas………………………
I HAVE ALOT OF THINGS TO WRITE!

My mind was so focused with my eyes half opened, with thoughts running through it at a zillion miles per second.
It was as though my brain just went on screensaver mode.
Automation to the max……….

Part of my head was doing this ping-pong thing where I explore every possible scenario and various responses and part of it was like a MacBook Air overheating at the verge of shutting down. Next year seems a very exciting year though….my mind went into a rage of 1001 things I’m looking forward to do and to go ahead with. I always seem to know how to give myself more work to do, and more things to work out. ?!??!?!

I want to stop thinking about it but I'm afraid I will forget everything. When inspiration hits me, my brain just goes into overdrive mode and thoughts just can't stop flowing

Okay I better stop……..

Here are some pictures of me and my gal pals over the whole period of time where I went missing and being missed by all……..on this bloggie blog…..


A Lianz Affair......21/09/08


A Sista Affair......12/11/08


The Hen's Affair 20/11/08

Lonely Affair @ The Airport 23/11/08

The Big Affair......29/11/08

Wait!!!!!

All Those wasnt So Lianz Right???Muhahhaa....

There were Parties after then....


Lianz In Armour Suit!!!!!Who dares To Smile???


A Toast To Friendship.....

Poser Princess.......

Lonely Babe @ Lan Kwai Fang with her Lychee Martini....:)

Hahaaa......3 Drunken SPGsss......

I love love love. This is so my kind of thing. Sooo me.

Insomia....

Ooops...i'm trying hard to sleep...*argh***........i'm still listening to the radio playing DEPECHE MODE'S "Somebody" now.......it's awesome...heee...i love that song but i hate it that i cant sleep now and i'm intending to wakie @ 6am in the morning for yoga class.......bleahhh..i pray hard i don't disappoint myself to wake!!!!I MUST !!!!!I MUST

*kathy knocks herself to sleep as the radios plays "SUKIYAKI"arghhhhh***

Nitezzzzz..........*tries to ZZZZzzzzz....*

Kathy's In The Zone

Something's happening.

I'm in the ZONE.

I can't type or even think properly - with literally a FLOOD of ideas and thoughts and I'm running on adrenalin. I don't have time to digest my thoughts.

The world economy's worrying state blah blah is not affecting me at all. In fact, I'm encouraged by it. Its going to be a new world and its time to move quickly.

I have evolved again.

Mrs Ong For A Month

Hi Hi...ooohhh i'm so married for a month today...keke...Yes,no post for so long...i'm so lazi in loading up my photos and plenty plenty of peek-tures thru out the preps and all the fun i had for the eh....past 2mths i guess....ok...will try to load up abit of each happenings soon alrighty??.....meantime,let me nuah abit in the office for today since i'm "boss-less" for a few days.....Heee.....till then.......

Response From Within My Heart.........

Let it Be
The Beatles (Lennon/McCartney)

When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.

And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be. Yeah
There will be an answer, let it be.

And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me,
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be,
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be



"If I could, I'll bring happiness to the world.
If I could, maybe I'll give you my world.
If I could, maybe I'll change things out there.
How can I, when I'm in despair?
Tell me why, everything turned around,only when happiness is abound?
If I could, I'd not run away.
If I could, maybe I'll return someday.
If I could, I'll buy all the things I like.
If I could, I'll keep them with me, tonight.
If I could, if I only could."

"Love begins with a smile, Grows with a kissAnd ends with a tear"

The "Half" True Blue Girl.....

Hello...I'm officially a CHIJ A lumni Member....hehe......Though i've not been a FULL True Blue girl...but i was at least...laying my foundation as a English-dainty little sweetheart*i know many people are puking...i dun care*

My favs in school were the school songs,the daily prayers,PE time and Tuesdays Assemblys....

Oh my...those were the days....

Those amazing things we did growing up as a "True blue girl".................

*I dunnu Why my mummy "uglified" my fringe when i'm young*

As I Aged.......

At last I can rest and start my beauty regime this month as the “ghost” goes on their annual “leave clearing” session……keke….
I was so tired doing last minute shopping for bed,Guo Da Li Stuffs,Cakes,Cocktail Dress,Stationeries…etc etc…..and finally my Honeymoon Venue and date is comfirmed too…Yipeee…
Ok…John says”I didn’t lie ok…is December I promised”…..*roll eyes*
As I grew nearer and nearer to becoming “Mrs Ong”,I have this fainting feeling of how much things I have to achieve in being ONE.
I started looking and thinking of silly things and experiences I have with “boys” since I 1st had a boyfriend @14…….*Am I too young??*

1. Celebrating silly “monthly annivesaries”
2. Having petty fights at the slightest strangest “ I-dunnu-why”
3. Hanging at void decks so that Parents dun catch me “dating”
4. Lying that I’ve been at chalets with classmates when I’m actually with “his friends and him”
5. Calling each other on the phones n pager(those are the dayszzzz)with romantic messages
6. Keeping every other birthdates, V-day,Xmas, Annivesaries cards/presents given.
7. Taking silly Neon Prints
8. Partying at Zouk with Boyfriend while still eyeing at some “hot man”…..
9. Waiting for Boyfriend @ Coffeebean At Holland-V while trying hard to be “eye candy” to others….
10.Write little notes to boyfriends telling them how much they mean to me.
11. Dressing up for occasions to be seen with him.
12. Being a Dainty princess as best as I can while with his friends…..*I wanna puke typing these* Oh my…the list goes on & on ….i’m feeling a little embarrass continuing these silly things………………*shy*
But I think I get less romantic the older I grow.And then I started changing my perspective of a BOYFRIEND in choosing and having them……
As girls, we don't have our direct pick of men but hey, I'm an old fashioned girl that will resort to fluttering my eyelashes to get their attention. But hey, despite myself, if you are too late you are TOO late. So guys, don't wait if she's really worth it. *wink*


Jokes aside, if we are to be brutally honest - that choice doesn't just affect us, it becomes our LIFE.We have to answer these questions for ourselves: "What kind of life do you want?", "How would you want to live your life?"

So, I shall present these are the pearls of wisdom I've gleaned from my much older friends since the moment I became interested in boys.

1) Looks - not important but we are naturally esthetically driven, so it definitely is somewhat a consideration in all of us. Usually what you see is what you get unless the person is hidden behind all that plastic surgery we won't really know how beautiful our kids will turn out too. And also too much plastic surgery... usually signifies a deeper rooted problem. Errr...

2) Values in life - look at how they spend their time. Do they coincide with yours?

3) Character - my most important criteria! I want a man I can admire, look up to and DEEPLY respect. Find a man with integrity and you never ever have to worry about his ability to provide for the family, infidelity, shady business situations he could get the family into, how he spends his money etc etc mostly life's most important things.

4) Spirituality - This is important to me


There are other things like getting along with his family, how he socializes, relaxes, his interests but I think Character, Values and Spirituality is it for me.

Of course over the years I admit that it has been very tempting for me to go out with a guy who is a total drop-dead gorgeous hunk, or the super smart guy with all the scholar papers and stimulates my intellectual brain, the sports man or the sexy rock star with his guitar or the know-it-all-hero businessmen whom I really connected due to my passion for business or who is famous. And of course all the flashy types who buy me presents and drive me around in fast cars too which can be fun.

At the end of the day, I think we should know ourselves best of what we want out of this life and choose magnificently. I really love and family life and I do love travel and I do love a few luxurious freedoms. I want to live life engaged and not passively.


I definitely do not want a guy with a raging temper.
I definitely do not want to constantly be on stand-by to a busy businessman and have the whole Guccis’ collection as a substitute.
I definitely want a family man.
I definitely want a shared interest in my passions.
I definitely want a partner in my life instead of "Me Tarzan, You Jane, go to the kitchen!"

Is John working towards ALL THE ABOVE??*He usually reads my blogs and sms me*kekekeke……



I'm working towards being the best woman I can ever be…….Heeeee

Simple Thoughts......

As I pen down my thoughts for today’s entry,several images of people ran thru’ my mind randomly.
Within a short 24hours, I spoke to several people with the same sad feeling.”Relationship is So Vunerable”
I’ve recently hear my sad separation stories from friends,family members and even from friend’s friend.
When I spoke to Brian,he asked me this”Does all these affect your thought about marriage??”Hmmm…..i’m glad I told him “Nope!!!”
I dun tink those that I have heard so much recently affected me in the way I felt for marriage.*phewww*Well,maybe I’m blessed for now with a nice Man with what I told anybody who used to asked me this question”Do you think he’s the one for you?”
I usually answer “I duno if he’s the ONE…But I would says he is for now and at this time of my life!!!”
Well,cum’on,wats the ONE right??i guess no one can be so SURE. I told Didi how I always feels about being on the deathbed when the ONE can tell you “I still loves you”,and I can be then sure “HE’S THE ONE”….*didi thinks I’m a rather pessimistic person in love*
Hmm……..but I’ve thought I’m blessed in having you just like you being lucky to have me *hyuk hyk hyuk*
Hmm……I suddenly lost all that I wanna write on my post coz Mummy keeps walking in to the room to get me to help her on her reports….ARGH!!!!!Ok,anyway some sad stories should be left to be forgotten….watsmore it isn’t my sad storiees….kekeke….
Since I’ve lost all my inspiration in spinning some sad post tonight,I shall post up some pics I owe from Mel’s farewell at the airport for Xuan…..





See How Many Specky Frens iHave......Lili suppose to be specky too lor.....she vain!!!keke....






ONLY gIRLS........


lOOK aT WHAT "we" Bought today??hahahahha....i just realised i'm not that vain....only 2 bottles belongs to me and the rest are my DIDI's....Omg.....he's vain lor......but lucky you know??I guessed,when you have a vain husband/bf will you expect lesser complains of "why are you girls spending unnecessary $$$ on such tings??" anyway Didi says is "maintain" not "VAIN"...hyuk hyuk hyuk............i like.......

The Gals,The Boy......& The Wedding Advanture....

Hey hey hey…lalalalalalala…I’m in such happy mood….But I’m down today with diarrhoe though…..ok…doc says it’s “Gastiric Virus”!!!Again??????!!!!!!!!*pout*

Ha….Sista wrote on her blog that I’m gonna “complain”!!!!Yes,I will do that 1st.
Met sista on Friday night for dinner.Meeting @ 6:30pm supposingly,but poor me waited till 8:25pm….i’ve got proof ok!!!!**hyuk hyuk I force sista to gimme some “guilty look”pics**

Anyway,we had fun camwhoring the whole night away in our silly girls power action after dinner @ TCC,Marina@Keppel, under pretty chandeliers….Heeeeee……I got home at 1:20am that night….Phew……..

Pretty??

Lattesss For The 2 Blur Sistas

Getting High By The Bay.....

So Pretty Posing By The Long Bridge

Then finally Tuesday for our “wedding photos”……keke……Didi tells me he didn’t sleep well the night before cause he felt so excited like a “little boy” going school for the very 1st time.*wow……but he’s sooooo cute*

Didi and I camwhore ourselves on Sunday trying out our wedding suits and gowns for the camera.*wahhahahaa….that was fun,but I look alittle ah-gua I feel*……I told Didi he look good “not smiling” and he actually did what I said during our actual shots…..hahahahaha…our photographer,Gideon,was puzzled why he did that till he told of what I said and all of us burst out laughing……**lol real hard**Didi…you soooo ah boy leh…..heeee…..

I look bit Ah-gua In That "WIG" rite??*pout*

keke....so cheesy poses......wahahhahaha

Magician JohnCopperfield

Yandao Bo???

Dadddd....our props(flowers we did) for the day......

Meiqi was my helper for that day….oh she did a great job enduring all that slope walking,perspiring and all the madness of carrying barang barangs and my “heavy train”……..THUMB UP BEE CHIIIIIIIII…….BLEAHHHH…

Haha....bee chi wans me to pose a super "obasan" pose before my hair is combed nicely......

I tink i'm still as "hiao" as i am when i used to part-time model during school dayzzz....

omg....Gideon's Camera in the background......I realised my train is pretty long...hahahhahaha....


So romantic rite??

i love this pic most........

That's all for the Day.......walks home................

Today,I met Xuan,Mel & Jasmine for a “Sex And The City” Day…..keke…..we had a table of food but I didn’t dare to eat much(jus in case I end up running toilet).
Haha…..catch our pics………

SATC???muahhahahaha

Hey.....what you gals looking??while Jas tries to catch herself on my cammie.....

Hmmm.....which is nice??

Dadddda......hair wax???Chey......

Xuan wanna use Jas as Guinea Pig.....

Try this Now??

See what i found??Can my tired feets be realli HAPPY????

Ok,these 2 fellow is going to be hard to find soon..esp Mel,aka my DIL(Daughter in Law)........

Bye bye & be back soon........