It hasn’t been a happy day yesterday. At least to me it was a rather “drama” one.
But I had a good lesson well learnt today at Elijah’s 12th(Elijahs’ is an ex coll son) birthday party @ Sentosa islander club.
Timothy,Elijah’s Dad, was a born-stonched Christian and is a highly looked upon goody daddy & hubby of all WOMEN.
Tim told us, John & me,his philosophy of being a MEN as A HUSBAND & FATHER.
His 4 years ago marriage crisis sets him & Suzanne on a HUGE ROCK!!.....He started telling himself that he should start doing something to save this marriage & show responsibilities to this “FAMILY”.
He pointed out several important pointers.:-
MEN are supposed to be born slave to Woman.Not because you are paid to.But,you need to.
MEN are suppose to be bankers in the relationship.Cause woman don’t invest love to you totally and on a whole….they pays you partially.
MEN should shower more love on the wife.Cause they are meant to be your strength and they are born communicators to bridge you around(networking).
MEN should allow the wife to shop*
Kathy smiles at John*.Cause they are the naturally the homemakers who does all purchases.
MEN should listen to the wife woes & response to them that they care.Cause woman can only feed comforted that way.
MEN who had highly overpowering wife, needs to show even more overpowering love to the wife in order for the wife to feel so “Loved” to submit themselves to the Man as HUSBAND.
Upon hearing what Tim told us….of cause I’ve got absolute no complains of what he has to say to John.*
smiles broadly*
I started feeling upset about what I did last night.
Yes, we had a fight over some unhappy issue over the wedding dinner. I wasn’t happy over certain arrangement done in order to please other people not totally involve in the wedding in which I feel totally absurd coz is OUR WEDDING!!!!!
And in that fight, we gain nothing!!!I got my arms hurt while trying to slam the door at John & he tells me he feels so hurt by my behaviour.*
arms in bandage now*
Out of the above 6 pointers,John is 90% to a perfect husband to me. He’s always telling me he’s a slave to me with no complains…*
please lor…I’m also wat*.He does showers me with more love then I do*
ok.,I scream at him occasionally though ..hehe…*and which boyfriend would spent $4400 on JUST a wedding gown on your not so fantastic wife-to be??John does lor….kekekekeke….
He’s always feels that shopping is never wrong as long as I can pay for what I buy without ending in debts and buying what I will use.Listen up lousy husband!!!!My boyfriends says “I can buy what I use not what I needs lor”hahhahahaa…..not all boyfriends can say that……
Ok,next,John does listen to my woes but he doesn’t gives me all goody responses though….sometimes he even lecture me….HE FAILS THIS POINT!!!!*
pout*
Fine…..enough of compliments for him….he’s not gonna put in more efforts if I do.
But I goto admit,he’s a good banker!!!He manage to convince me into investing 30yrs of my love to him for now*
quite a good deal isn’t it?? Or pity him??*
Anyway,we did kiss and made up for last night.
Sorry Didi….if you read this,please come & say sorry again also lor!!!!
I’m gonna sleep now……I’m still on my cough & sinus medication.gonna go be drowsy”
