Dreamy Little Morning Thoughts....

*See That Bubble Gummy?It doesnt comes with tattoo now*

Decisions, decisions, decisions.

How much can one girl take?

When I was growing up, I always prided myself to be somewhat grown up. I liked being mature, I liked having grown up friends, and I liked being sensible and making adult choices.

Lately, after having to deal with many issues that came with my work and life in general, all I want is to be a little girl. Carefree and silly! Don't you realize that no one reprimands kids for being silly and always on a whim?

Deep inside I know I'm a free-spirited person. I want to fly to the moon or jump into someone's pool in their backyard or dance in a whole garden of flowers with daisies in my hair.

I'm expressive...I mourn when I see a little bird who has died, and cry at the silliest movies, I jump and clap my hands when I'm happy and excited, and stomp my feet when I'm mad. I can't not lose my cool especially when I see an old lady ignored when she asked for help and I am feisty.

I'm as sensitive as a shy little child and spoilt by the ones I love. I sing with my heart out all the time, and laugh like its the funniest thing you said. I'm still as cheeky and mischievous whenever

Its so lovely when you have your childlike moments. This happens when I realize I have no burden to bear, no life-changing decisions to make...I can just smell the air and dance on my tippy toes.

How lovely!*yeah...i can be drama-mama...but i'm actually a little kid at heart*

I love this quote about womanhood.

"She who is one day to become a mother is for a long while a child" - can't remember

Song Demand!!!!

I Love this song....i even love it more if Didi could sing it to me....*kathy smiles to strawberries she's eating*

Special thanks to Andy who found this song to me*he force me to say thanks to him before i sleep tonight.but i refuse....keke*

500miles-Proclaimers:

When I wake up well I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who wakes up next to you

When I go out yeah I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who goes along with you

If I get drunk well I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who gets drunk next to you

And if I haver yeah I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who's havering to you

But I would walk 500 milesAnd I would walk 500 more

Just to be the man who walked 1,000 miles

To fall down at your door

When I'm working yes I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who's working hard for you

And when the money comes in for the work I'll doI'll pass almost every penny on to you

When I come home oh I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who comes back home to you

And if I grow old well I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who's growing old with you

But I would walk 500 milesAnd I would walk 500 more

Just to be the man who walked 1,000 miles

To fall down at your door

na na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika lana na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika la

When I'm lonely well I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man whose lonely without you

And when I'm dreaming well I know I'm gonna dreamI'm gonna dream about the time when I'm with you

When I go out well I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who goes along with you

and when I come home yes I know I'm gonna beI'm gonna be the man who comes back home with you

I'm gonna be the man whose coming home with you.

But I would walk 500 milesAnd I would walk 500 more

Just to be the man who walked 1,000 milesTo fall down at your door

na na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika lana na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika lana na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika lana na na, na na nana na na, na na nalika lika lika lika lika la

But I would walk 500 milesAnd I would walk 500 moreJust to be the man who walked 1,000 milesTo fall down at your do-o-or

Going to lala land.....tomolo off to Malaysia Senai with my "ah dai" manager!!!!!Boooo..i hope he wouldnt speed like he does in Singapore*sighhhh*

Drama Turns Love Around

It hasn’t been a happy day yesterday. At least to me it was a rather “drama” one.
But I had a good lesson well learnt today at Elijah’s 12th(Elijahs’ is an ex coll son) birthday party @ Sentosa islander club.
Timothy,Elijah’s Dad, was a born-stonched Christian and is a highly looked upon goody daddy & hubby of all WOMEN.

Tim told us, John & me,his philosophy of being a MEN as A HUSBAND & FATHER.
His 4 years ago marriage crisis sets him & Suzanne on a HUGE ROCK!!.....He started telling himself that he should start doing something to save this marriage & show responsibilities to this “FAMILY”.
He pointed out several important pointers.:-

MEN are supposed to be born slave to Woman.Not because you are paid to.But,you need to.
MEN are suppose to be bankers in the relationship.Cause woman don’t invest love to you totally and on a whole….they pays you partially.
MEN should shower more love on the wife.Cause they are meant to be your strength and they are born communicators to bridge you around(networking).
MEN should allow the wife to shop*Kathy smiles at John*.Cause they are the naturally the homemakers who does all purchases.
MEN should listen to the wife woes & response to them that they care.Cause woman can only feed comforted that way.
MEN who had highly overpowering wife, needs to show even more overpowering love to the wife in order for the wife to feel so “Loved” to submit themselves to the Man as HUSBAND.

Upon hearing what Tim told us….of cause I’ve got absolute no complains of what he has to say to John.*smiles broadly*

I started feeling upset about what I did last night.
Yes, we had a fight over some unhappy issue over the wedding dinner. I wasn’t happy over certain arrangement done in order to please other people not totally involve in the wedding in which I feel totally absurd coz is OUR WEDDING!!!!!
And in that fight, we gain nothing!!!I got my arms hurt while trying to slam the door at John & he tells me he feels so hurt by my behaviour.*arms in bandage now*

Out of the above 6 pointers,John is 90% to a perfect husband to me. He’s always telling me he’s a slave to me with no complains…*please lor…I’m also wat*.He does showers me with more love then I do*ok.,I scream at him occasionally though ..hehe…*and which boyfriend would spent $4400 on JUST a wedding gown on your not so fantastic wife-to be??John does lor….kekekekeke….
He’s always feels that shopping is never wrong as long as I can pay for what I buy without ending in debts and buying what I will use.Listen up lousy husband!!!!My boyfriends says “I can buy what I use not what I needs lor”hahhahahaa…..not all boyfriends can say that……
Ok,next,John does listen to my woes but he doesn’t gives me all goody responses though….sometimes he even lecture me….HE FAILS THIS POINT!!!!*pout*
Fine…..enough of compliments for him….he’s not gonna put in more efforts if I do.
But I goto admit,he’s a good banker!!!He manage to convince me into investing 30yrs of my love to him for now*quite a good deal isn’t it?? Or pity him??*
Anyway,we did kiss and made up for last night.
Sorry Didi….if you read this,please come & say sorry again also lor!!!!
I’m gonna sleep now……I’m still on my cough & sinus medication.gonna go be drowsy”

Obsession with Wahjong

Hey.....I've been so obsessed with something recently....i've affected many people's life by doing so....some to name on my namelist is
1)Melissa
2)Youqi aka Sista
3)John aka Didi
4)Petrina(whose complaining she's bored from pregnancy)
5)Junjie the ET......

Nah.....It's Wahjong at http://www.viwawa.com...hehe/....


Didi is so obsessed too lor......hahahaha..*that workaholic chap is slacking to MJ online*

Hey,i goto go now....sista is asking me to mj liao.....*didi calls this "good training ground"!!!!

Wedding Preparation

Hey....I'm starting to prepare for the BIG DAY now....feeling a little excited over the gowns & buying of stuffs.....keke...

I realised Cantonese is not that "irritating" in customs afterall you know??Look at the following & you shall decide for yourselves....but the "VIRGIN" tingy is damn hilarious....i called Didi & read it out to him...he laugh out so loud,he's rolling....

Ok....let's start with the "ever" mafan CANTONESE!!!!

Guo Da Li ( Cantonese )

Groom side must give:

-A basket of 12 oranges

- A medium size roast pig with pig's head and legs

- A big piece of roast pork

- 2 bottles of hard liquor

-Boxes of cakes would depends on the number of boxes requested by the bride's side

- 2 sets of " Long and Feng" candles-" Pin Jin" for bride's mother ( amount depending on how much the bride's side request )

- A pair of gold bracelets or a LAI SEE for the bride to buy jewellery

- LAI SEE for " Shoe Gold" please write " shoe gold" on the back of the LAI SEE

-LAI SEE for Grandparents, Godparents and siblings

-A packet of " Fai Cai, Chinese mushroom and "Fa Gao"

Bride side to return to groom:

-Chop off the middle section of the roast pig leaving the head and the legs of the pig. Replaced the chopped off section with a pair of pants ( wrapped in plastic) for the groom. ( This will bring " Da Fu Da Gui" to the groom

- Return portion of the " Pin Jin" to the groom side

- 2 bottles of Rose Syrup or F&N orange

- Give a teapot set with red dates and lotus seeds inside the teapot ( to bring descendant luck)

- Give a packet of ginko nuts, lotus seeds, red dates and dried longans

-Pass a pair of " Feng" candles for groom to bring back

- Bride must give LAI SEE to groom's parents, siblings and nephews/niece ( for buying new clothes

Traditionally :

Day 1 - groom picks bride for tea ceremony

Night 1 - bridal night.

Day 2 - groom tells his parents bride is a virgin (after bridal night). Groom's parents buy a pig for bride's parents, acknowledging that bride is virgin.

Day 3 - groom and bride return to bride's parents' home for tea ceremony, with the pig.

Quite poor thing right the Cantonese Girls'??Marry Daughter still need to give so much!!!!keke*kathy is cantonese lor*

Wait PEOPLE,Come Back and dun sigh.....look at the worst to come!!!!!

See these Hokkien Blood Suckers!!! *didi is hokkien*

Guo Da Li(Hokkien)

Groom To bring

-24 cans of pig trotters ( bride to return some)

-Red packet $1200-$1800 ( bride to return $200-$800)

-Biscults/Cakes ( bride to return the number groom wants)

-2 bottles of Martell ( bride to return 2x bottle of orange juice)

-1 pair of Long Feng Zhu ( groom takes phoenix and bride takes dragon)

-Gold ( Si Dian Jin)

-Oranges ( bride to return some)

-Big Basket ( for groom to put things in, bride to put things in return and groom to carry back )

-Fa Guo-Ang Pow for Match Maker ( if any )

-Rock Sugar-Melon Sugar

Bride To Return

-Pants for the groom

-Ang Pows for groom's parents and unmarried siblings-2 bottles of honey/1.5L of soft drinks in exchange for the Martell

-Towels wrapped up as presents for groom's parents,grandparents and aunties

-2 lamps ( either battery operated or electrically operated)

-Comforter set, blankets,Pillows for brides, bedsheets, bolster ( tie together using red ribbons)

-suitcase to put bride's clothes, new set of pyjamas etc

-2 tea set ( for groom's side and bride's side)

-Baby Bath Pail-Face Basin

-Xi Stickers ( includes 2 big ones to paste on master bedroom door and main wooden door)

-Ruler-Ribbons 3 different sizes ( Big ones to tie pillows)

-Fans ( 1 pair) not for Hainanese custom

-Home slippers not for hainanese and cantonese custom

-Handkerchief ( optional)

-Spittoon

-1 Sewing box with 6/8/12 rolls of threads & needles & scissors ( to tie red ribbons on scissors)

-Mirror and comb

-Mouth rinse container

-Yan Ji ( 10 Big and 10 small)

-Red Strings ( 1 pair)

-Variety of gold Jewellery displayed in a box ( has to show to the in laws, then the bride keep after the actual day or depends on when mother in law returned)

-Longans, Red dates, Bai he, Lotus seeds, Rock Sugar and Yuan Bing

-Fa Gao

-Pig Trotters, red packets ( $18), biscults for matchmaker ( if any)-Red Banner ( for bride)

-Red Packet ( for bride)

( All these above items prepared by brides to be taken back to groom side)

*Kathy rolls eyes...they bring everything but takes back more!!!!!*Kaoz....bloodsuckers lor.....And i dun understand wat the hell they need suitcase for?逃命？？Haiz.....

P.S Didi....Why not you marry me lah....i more wu hua!!!!

ToTo Cheat Me Of My Dreams.....

Argh...The Whole Singapore's Crazy About Tonight's 10M Prize Wins....keke...me too...of coz...is a freaking 10 MILLIONS lor....*pout*....i queue eh ok,not too long.10MINS.
I've been bragging to Didi last night about how i will buy him a brand new Beemer dumping away his old one...kekekeke...travel Europe in 80days and telling Nip i'll pay for her tix to Europe & telling my sista to quit her job & smirk at her MD!!!!!!


Bleah....my cruel mum broke my heart while watching tv,switching to teletext for TOTO results....*can't she wait till the show is over & i'm ready??*







01,15,18,19,25,37 & 02





Bo dio....argh....boooo......dreams shattered.....Not even econ class air tix.....*rolls eyes & scream*




Didi also bo dioz...hahahhaa

Heck.....tomorrow back to work!!!STOP DREAMING KATHY!!!!!!!!!
Isnt it "yuan siao jie" (chinese valentine's day)today?No pressie again....i told Didi...i'm going to blog and let everyone knows he didnt buy me any pressie*heee..shame*
I'm going to look for Rabbit & Chang-er to tell them too since it's suppose to be the roundest & brightest today....i may spot some "warewolves"??(watever the spelling)



John:"Bb...i found something...come come & see"


John:"wah...i thought today can book a rocket bring you to moon wor....toto no dioz"


Kathy:" Chey...always say...*pout*Make a wish first....hope the next Million Dollar Toto i dio"


Some evil shit behind me laughing*pout pout pout*

My sista(uqi) suggested cleaning our kacheng(ass) with the toto tix.....Yeah :):)

Happy CNY....With Pics Promised Long Ago..keke

Yeah…I’m back to my little blog of diaries….keke

First of all, HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR TO everybody!Though I was never a fan of Chinese new year simply because of all the meet-and-greets and it gets so tiring! I'm not very close to my cousins and neither do I gamble well. So since a child, you can find me in a little corner with my nose stuck in a book. That's not too good as well because according to Chinese tradition, it was bad luck. (I was told the word book in mandrin sounded too similar to the word "lose", hence the superstition)The best part about Chinese new year is receiving all the ANG PAOs and of course conspiring and eventually sneaking away to meet my friends (when I was older of course). The fun is to get away unnoticed.Definitely it was fun to go shopping for new clothes. Any excuse for new clothes! But in later years, I realize boutiques find a way to over-stuff their racks with clothes just because people are buying like crazy...in the end, I feel that designs are compromised and for a few years, I just survived by pulling out an outfit from my existing wardrobe. I'm pretty stubborn about my clothes.*ok,say im fussy sumtimes*……roll eyes**Can you believe its already unto the 2nd month of the new year? I've already more or less formulated my new year resolutions. Well its CNY right? Guess the resolutions this year is something boring coz basically is to get myself going to get all wedding stuffs done up n rest myself pretty for the BIG DAY!!!!Yeah….i’ve been MIA from this blog and I know I did promise to post lots of pictures up here…but as you know,posting of pics takes almost 3hrs for just a miserable 20pics to be put up…argh…..yes…believe me!!!And I’ve got a awesomely 50 pics to post right now…howwwwww??????bleahhhh…*accumulated from xmas till cny*kekekeke*feeling guilty all now*
So should I start to back-date what happens to me eh…from xmas in that case?

1. My best pal got her proposal at LAST on xmas eve…….KEKEKEKE….and guess wat crazy things we have done *ssshhhh secret*

"Eh i'm all drunk still take pic??"

"Hmmm...finally......"

"Let me see if it sparkles...."

"Oh my god...is still small lor....nevermind dar,2008 xmas you upgrade k??"

2. I got my xmas Gift at last(over midnight lor)…bleahhh…..i love it so much lor.....the color so LIANZ!!!!!

3. Baby Laurine(in red) is getting taller & she’s such a darling to everyone…..while baby amanda & angelia(standing clapping with daddy)awaits their newborn baby amelia who has arrived on CNY eve......*applause*

4. My Casanova-loving pal leaving for CANADA just before CNY…..booo..*I did sob*…(just in case Brian pops in once awhile to read my blog)kekeke….

Kathy:"CHEEZZE....oei...you coming back for my wedding?

Brian:"Hmmm.....no lah...waste $$..."

5. We found this Kawaii shop @ Far East Plaza

…..once with Nip

And then with Didi….

6. Yeah…it’s CNY….

Isn't It cute??

The Young Ones

VS

The Lao Hero

Godpa & Look-aLike God Daughter...

We Can Roar......:)


We Are Family...All My Brother Sisters & mE....KEKE....*Song leh....*
7.I’m looking forward to my gown making NOW……*smiles flying out of Kathy’s eyes*……